Wednesday, December 12, 2007

The Beauty of Guangxi, China



We are thrilled to announce the referral for our new daugther Lily. She is 3 years old and living in Liuzhou, Gaungxi (Southern China). We hope to travel to China to bring her home in late Spring 2008.

Wednesday, December 5, 2007

Waiting Children List Expected To Arrive Anyday

Our agency has been waiting for a new list of children for a few weeks now. It should arrive anyday (translation - it could still be another month).

Anyway, we are sure hoping we are lucky to get a match off this latest list. It's possible, but there are still other families ahead of us, so not a certainty.

Stay tuned over the next few weeks for news on the new list. If we don't get a match off this list we will have to wait anywhere from 4-6 months (translation - Summer 2008) from now for another list.

Friday, June 22, 2007

Still Waiting For A Match

Well we heard from our agency this morning. No match this time. We will have to wait for the next set of profiles (Fall 2007), or maybe the next list (Winter 2008)after that.

We are not that far down the list, the people ahead of us just want the same type of profile, and the profiles sent to our agency just don't have lots of young little girls. We need to wait till they are all matched before it's our turn. So we go back to waiting (or preparing if you look at it postively).

Tuesday, June 12, 2007

Waiting Children Profiles are In

Our agency has just received profiles for children this week. We're sure hoping that we will be able to receive a match off this list. Hopefully we'll find out within a few days or so. Stay tuned.

Friday, April 6, 2007

Our Log-In-Date - Feb 14, 2007

Our Log-In-Date is now officially Feb. 14, 2007. This is the date that China officially received our dossier of paperwork. If we were with the non-special needs program this date would be very important. It would hold our place in line to adopt. However, given we are with the Waiting Children's program it's not very important beyond the fact that it confirms China does have our paperwork, and the "old" rules (that change on May 1, 2007) should still apply to us.

Monday, March 19, 2007

Request Sent to China

From Nov 2006:

Finally are request has gone to China. What a great Christmas present!

All our paperwork has been translated and approved by the Chinese Embassy. In addition, I was just notified the other day that our agency has recently sent our "Request to Adopt" to China. However, we're not exactly sure how long it will take to match us to our daughter.

China has recently introuduced some new processes that will become effective in the New Year. We're not sure if this will speed up our match or slow it down. We'll probably find out the details of the new processes within a month so so.

If things stay as they are for timelines, we're probably looking at about 12 months (more or less) from now before we get a match. Then we review and accept the referral. After that it could take a few months before we finally go to China to pick up our new daughter.

Correctable Conditions and Links

Correctable Conditions
The following are links to information on one of the correctable conditions our daughter may have.

Clubfoot
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Club_foot

Cleft Lip
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cleft_palate

Great website to better understand "Waiting Children" from China
http://www.waitingchild.org/

A Poem

The Answer (To an Adopted Child)

Not flesh of my flesh
Nor bone of my bone,
But still miraculously
My own.

Never forget
For a single minute:
You didn't grow under my heart
But in it.

--Fleur Conkling Heyliger

Why Adoption, China, and the Waiting Children's Program

Why Adoption?
We believe all children deserve a loving family regardless of whether they are born into the family, or come into that family by adoption. We felt that adoption was choice we could make to "grow our family".

Why China?
We believe all children are deserving of a loving and supportive home regardless of borders. Adoption, for us, is about finding the right child and right adoption process that most suits the needs of our family. After looking at a variety of adoption choices, China seemed to offer us the best match in terms of the child and process that we were looking for.

Why the Waiting Children's Program?
We believe all children are deserving of a family's love regardless of their unique needs. We feel we have the ability and resources to welcome a child that has a correctable condition (e.g. clubfoot, cleft-lip, etc.) into our family.

Timeline

April 2006
Make decision to adopt a little girl from China

May 2006
First visit with Adoption Agency.Begin Homestudy process.

August 2006
Complete Homestudy process.

September 2006
Make decision to adopt little girl with a correctable condition (e.g. club foot, cleft lip, etc.) from China's Waiting Children Program (Special Needs).

October 2006
Amend Homestudy for Waiting Children's Program, and
received Ministry approval for Adoption.

November 2006
A request to adopt has been sent to the China Centre for Adoption Affairs (http://www.china-ccaa.org/)for review and matching. They do the matching for us based on the age and special need we have requested. (note - you will need to click the button at the top of the CCAA website to change to "English")

Late 2007 or Early 2008 Expected date for referral (picture and medical report) of our daughter and travel to China